When to Stop Single? When did you fall in love like him? Before you complain, take a look at yourself first to see if there are any of these seven characteristics.
1. Love others but do not borrow confessions: The old saying is that no squirrel jumps into the mouth of the sleeping lion. Love, no matter what, when you want but do not act towards it, you will never get what you absolutely want. It does not mean that you have to run for love, but if you love them, you have to find a way to express yourself. Whether they know it or not is their thing, but more importantly, we have already done it. Remember that if you want to be brave, ask, if you want to be known, know how to ask, if you love someone, be brave to tell them. There is nothing in this world that comes empty, everything comes by effort.
2. Excessive fear: Fear of the face, fear of the back, fear of being scared! Ask what you are afraid of. Whatever you do, when there is too much fear, it is self-restraint in despair and failure. Love is no different, as long as you hold on to ideas, fear of not being loved, fear of separation, fear of being unworthy, fear of family dislike, etc. . Well, at least you didn't go down without explaining yourself first and then trying to figure out what to do with it. Interrupt your activities.
3. Feeling you have 'Run out of gas' emotionally: Stop it! Stories that say you are bad do not deserve to be loved. This is a serious closure of self, not to mention the people around you, even God can send love to you if you still hold such thoughts.
4. Too much concern for what others have to say: Usually thinking is more than a good thing, but if our thinking is just an analysis of other people's words more than our own, we will not be clear about Decide no. Suppose a lot of people ask for your love, but suddenly people around you whisper that they are bad, unworthy or unworthy of you. In the beginning, if you start thinking about those things, it can make you reluctant to accept love, not daring to reciprocate the love, even though you have not actually tried to do it. Hearing the thunder immediately assumed that the sky would be raining.
5. Refuse to give yourself a chance: No matter what we do, if we have a choice, we are smart. Love is the same thing, when we try to block ourselves, no one can come to us. Understanding your own needs and accepting opportunities for yourself is the most important thing in starting to fall in love and open your heart to accept someone to think.
6. Too much negativity: Some people hear that having love does not make life fresh, but even brings the burden to put on more than one body. When you think like this too much, the negative points of being in love will make you no longer want to try to know love, eventually become a habit of living alone, doing everything alone. You. Of course, this is not entirely the case, as we all know that everything has the same advantages and disadvantages, and so does love. Therefore, you should prioritize your own decisions rather than taking what comes from their conversations into mind until you indulge yourself. No more self-control in deciding to accept love.
7. Lack of self-confidence: Some people allow themselves to lose their beauty, carelessness until old face, and also make themselves lack self-confidence. This can make some people who intend to fall in love with you hesitate or withdraw because they see that you are not self-loving, do not care about yourself. You become a person who thinks a lot, they just look at your face and see that your heart is full of millions of crises. You should change this habit, start taking care of yourself, feel happy, then the person who loves you agrees to take a step towards you.
If you do not want to be single until the earth stops spinning, as you say, you should give up some of the above seven points and try to improve yourself. Love yourself, take care of yourself first, then others want to come to love and want to take care of you.
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